Starting Block

On Your Mark. Get Set. Go.

A decision to leave your host country can take minutes to months to decide ‘yes' to go or ‘no' to stay. The decision may or may not be yours to make depending on the circumstances. But no matter how a decision is made, the starting block of re-entry is where you now find yourself.

Often when the decision has been made to leave your host country waves of guilt and insecurity can arise and knock you down. Leaving you to question and even doubt your decision.

"Did we make the right decision?"

"What have we done!?"

"Should we stay?"

"What are we going to do?"

"What are people going to say?"

Feeling guilty and insecure can hit you and knock you over from the reactions and responses of other people about the decision made. And also from your own inner struggles with leaving friends, teammates, and ministry work.

What a heavy load to carry, friend. Don't let this become a stumbling block in 'getting out of the gate.' Care for yourself by asking for help.

Remember the goal.

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