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How to Know What Your Core Values Are?

 


We often hear the phrase “live by your values,” but many people quietly wonder: “How do I actually know what my core values are?”

 

Values aren’t chosen at random. They are discovered, clarified, and strengthened over time. They are the principles that shape your decisions, direct your energy, and define what matters most in how you live and lead.

 

Here are some meaningful ways to identify your core values:

1.     Values often reveal themselves in your emotional responses. Know what fills you and what drains you.

2.     Reflect on peak moments in your life. Think about times that you felt deeply fulfilled or proud.

3.     Strong uncomfortable emotions can be a compass too. Pay attention to what grieves you or makes you angry.

4.     Your choices reveal what matters to you. Look at your patterns of decision-making. 

5.     Often, we are inspired by people who embody our own deeply held values. Consider who inspires you and why. 

6.     Values anchor not just who you are but who you are becoming. Ask: What kind of person do I want to be? 

7.     Clarity often comes not only from reflection but from stillness, surrender, and listening. Pray or sit in silence and listen.

 

Values don’t confine you—they ground you. They don’t limit you—they liberate you to live on purpose. When you know your values, decisions become clearer, boundaries feel more natural, and your path feels more aligned with who you are and who you are becoming.

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