Boundaries: Staying in Your Lane

Boundaries are not barriers that keep us small—they are guides that help us stay aligned with who we are and what we are called to do. In seasons of transition, growth, and decision-making, clear boundaries are essential to living with purpose and capacity.

When we understand our core values, mission, and vision, we gain a compass for navigating choices and commitments. These anchors remind us where our energy is meant to go—and where it is not. They allow us to move confidently in our lane, rather than drifting into roles, expectations, or responsibilities that don’t align with our purpose.

Healthy boundaries protect our time, energy, and emotional space. They help us honor our limits, steward our strengths, and recognize that we are not meant to do everything. Without them, we risk burnout, resentment, and losing sight of what truly matters.

Saying “yes” only to what aligns with our values and mission is not selfish—it’s faithful stewardship. Boundaries allow us to offer our best where we are called, instead of overextending ourselves or reaching beyond what we can sustainably hold.

By staying in our lane, we create space for growth, clarity, and meaningful impact. Boundaries don’t restrict us—they empower us to live with intention, courage, and peace.

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