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The Body Keeps Score

 


We are made up of many parts—our thoughts, emotions, spirit, and body.

When we experience hardship, it’s natural to disconnect from some of those parts. Most often, we disconnect ourselves from our emotions and our bodies. This can be a necessary survival response in times of crisis.

 

But when that disconnect becomes our normal, we can lose touch with ourselves.

 

When we live in a constant state of "pushing through," we stop noticing what our body is telling us. We ignore the tension, the fatigue, the heaviness. We silence the emotions that were meant to guide and protect us. And over time, our body carries the burden. 

 

Our body carries what our mind tries to forget. It holds stress, grief, fear, and even unspoken joy. Over time, these unacknowledged experiences build up, showing up as tension, fatigue, or a vague sense of unease.

 

Body mapping is one way to begin reconnecting.

It’s a gentle, intentional practice of tuning in—naming the emotion you're feeling and noticing where in your body that emotion is living.

 

Maybe it's anxiety in your chest.
Grief in your throat.
Joy in your belly.
Or anger pulsing through your arms.

 

There’s no right or wrong—just information, waiting to be heard.

 

This kind of awareness is not about fixing or judging—it’s about listening. Because healing starts with connection. And every part of you deserves to be known, felt, and honored.

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