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June Newsletter

 SHANNON’S CORNER

Connect. Nurture. Grow.


Building connection and trust are important in any relationship and especially when wanting to create a safe place for people to share and process their stories. Sometimes with kids and teens it can take a bit of time to foster those connections and trust. A question that is implied is, “Are you safe to share my story with?” Often it is through play these connections are built.


Both families who I debriefed serve in Uganda, they serve with different organizations in the capital of Kampala, and both families are in transition. The one sibling group were ages 3, 6, and 8 years old and as I worked with them, I was able to apply some of the principles I learned in play processing. The other sibling group were ages 5, 7, 13, and 14 years old which was a bit of a challenge for me with the large age span. The main thing for all of them was saying goodbye to friends who have come and gone while they were the ones “left behind”, and for the one sibling group they are now the “friends” who are leaving, saying goodbye to pets, and even to a beloved grandmother. One of the challenges that TCKs face because of the high mobility of people in their lives, is that they go deep quickly in friendships because of not knowing how long the person or themselves will be there, and/or they self-protect, only let people see one aspect of who they are depending on the person or group of people and not their whole true self, kind of like a chameleon.


The younger TCKs loved making their emotion boxes and emotion buckets. Emotion words are the language needed to process, describe, and articulate what is happening on the inside of us. They all enjoyed the journey of grief scavenger hunt, to see the diet coke and mentos explode like a volcano, running around with a bagful of rocks or seeing how long you can hold a big rock in your hand, and being in the dark with glow sticks. Since both families are in transition with played the transition game which they loved and were frustrated with it because of rolling the wrong color and having to sometimes go backwards even when some were about to win the game. If you want to see more photos, videos, and specifics join Shannon’s Support Team on Facebook. 

$250 to go and we are at $45,000!!!


I have started a new partnership with MacGregor and Ashely Magruder who are missionaries with Field Life and serve at Tributary Retreat Center located in the Ozarks of Arkansas. These last three years they have been hosting and providing care to missionaries who serve all around the world through debriefs and different niches of life coaching. I got to know more of their story and to hear their vision for Tributary Retreat Center as I provided their first TCK debrief last week. They realized that I also do adult debriefing and that I am in the beginnings of my life transitions coaching, so, they have asked me to prayerfully consider coming and staying for a number of weeks at a time to provide TCK debriefs, adult debriefs, and/or life transition coaching. (Map shows all the countries the missionaries they have debriefed, and coach serve these last three years.)


My contact information was given to missionary who is building a working group to develop a training manual / workbook to help equip people to do re-entry work. The missionary, David, reached out to me to see if I was interested in learning more and possibly being part of the working group that he is putting together. We met via zoom and David shared the vision for developing a training manual for those who equip people for re-entry. He shared how he has used some of the material out there already and it was either not enough information or too much that it was overwhelming and unhelpful. I have read the same books and workbooks that he talked about and agreed with him. I have agreed to be a part of his team in developing a training manual / workbook which we will meet every other week to discuss what David has written, is writing, and to look at re-entry from many different perspectives and along the spectrum of re-entry, not just the initial phase of re-entry. I am looking forward to being able to contribute to this project that will help many missionaries in their re-entry journey as well as for churches and mission organizations to care and equip well their people.

 

$250 to go and we are at $45,000!!!

 

Life Transitions Coaching with Shannon:

 

Life transition coaching isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about creating space to explore who you’re becoming.  A good coach helps you make sense of the in-between, so you can move forward with purpose, not just momentum.  Someone this past month wanted to know and experience a coaching session, so she signed up.  If you too would like to experience what coaching is like, to try it out for yourself, then sign up for a 50-minute coaching session with me.  This is a GIFT for me as I continue to practice and learn my coaching techniques to become a better life transitions coach.


“The One who calls you is faithful, and He will do it.”

1 Thessalonians 5:24


PRAYER REQUESTS

Praise the Lord for sweet time with the three Kirabira TCKs and using new play processing principles!

Praise the Lord for a lovely time with the four Willard TCKs and getting to meet MacGregor and Ashley who serve at Tributary Retreat!

Praise the Lord for visiting with Kent & Connie while in Arkansas!

Praise the Lord for graduation celebration!

Praise the Lord for safety in traveling!

Praise the Lord for online debrief w/ Shari who finished her term of service!

Praise the Lord for online debrief w/ Caitlyn!

Praise the Lord for the opportunity to speak at Trinity Community Church!


Pray for 2025 fundraising campaign - $250 still needed to reach $45,000.

Pray for Helmhold Family Debrief, 4 TCKs – July 1st – 3rd. 

Pray for Individual online debrief on July 9th.

Pray for speaking engagement at East Grove Church in Franklin, PA July 13th.

Pray for summer TCK Connect meeting on July 18th. 

Pray for Individual in-person debrief on July 21st – 25th.

Pray for Cherry Run Camp July 26th – August 3rd. 


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Shannon Eaton

107 Old York Rd Apt 5

New Cumberland, PA 17070

(724) 967-1437


Email:  shannon.eaton76@gmail.com

Coaching:  lifetransitioncoaching.shannon@gmail.com

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