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Who am I?

 


When life shifts and change sweeps in, it can feel like we’re untethered—like we’re free-falling without a clear sense of who we are. In the midst of transition, many of us begin to ask the age-old question: Who am I?

 

It’s not uncommon to realize how much of our identity can be entangled in what we do like our job, our roles, and how we show up for others. But when those external anchors shift or disappear, it can leave us feeling lost.

 

If you are looking for a quick fix or solution, there isn’t one. 

 

It’s a journey. 

 

It takes time to peel off and strip away from the entanglements of our “doing” and from our “roles in relationships” to get to who we are – our being. One question that can begin the journey is this, “Why was I created, (being not doing)?”

 

Give yourself permission to sit with that. The unfolding is worth it.

 

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