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Lent: Honoring What Is Ending


Every change includes an ending.

Transitions always involve loss - even when they lead to something good. A role, rhythm, expectation, or identity may be coming to a close.

This week, instead of rushing past endings, we are invited to honor them.

Lent gives permission to grieve what is ending rather than rushing past it. When we honor endings, we allow them to complete their work in us. Grief is not a sign that something went wrong. It is a sign that something mattered. When we skip grief, we carry unfinished weight into the future. 

Endings are not failures. They are part of growth.

REFLECTION QUESTION:

What ending in your life needs to be honored rather than avoided?




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