Shannon's Corner

  You are not your job title.  You are not your productivity.  You are not only the caretaker, the leader, the helper, the strong one.   Those may be things you  do —beautifully, even sacrificially—but they are not the  whole story  of who you are.   Your worth is not defined by your output.  Your identity is not limited to your roles.   Coaching begins when we ask: What would it look like to live from that truer self, even just a little more today?

  SHANNON’S CORNER Connect. Nurture. Grow. We did it!  We reached our goal of raising $45,000 for 2025.  Thank you all for your generous giving and support as we continue providing care to ministry workers and their families around the world. Three Women.  Three Journeys.  One Safe Space to Be Seen.   This month, I had the privilege of walking alongside three courageous women in online debriefing sessions.  Though their paths were different, each came to the process carrying layers of heartache, unanswered questions, and the quiet ache of grief.  One woman had just completed her time on the field.  After years of pouring herself out in teaching in a cross-cultural school, she is now re-entering life in the U.S.—familiar yet foreign.  She spoke of feeling untethered, as her identity and confidence as a teacher got shipwrecked and questioning if teaching still her purpose.  In debriefing, s...

  Sometimes, the discomfort we feel in transition isn’t just from what’s changing—but from what we’re being asked to  release .   Old roles. Outdated identities. Patterns that once protected us.   Letting go doesn’t mean those parts of us weren’t valuable. It means we’re being invited to grow beyond them.   Who might you become if you loosen your grip on who you’ve  had  to be? I had spent decades as a nurse—always the steady one, the caregiver, the one others relied on in times of need. My days were full of tending, fixing, responding. But when I stepped away from that role, I didn’t just feel relief—I felt untethered. My identity had been so deeply wrapped up in taking care of others that I had to ask myself:  Who am I if I’m not doing that anymore?   In the quiet that followed, I started to uncover pieces of myself that had been waiting patiently in the background—my love for reflection, learning, and walking alongside others in a dee...